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Snow Day

The weather people got it right for once.  It actually snowed like they said it would.  We didn’t venture out very far today.  We went for a walk and then came back to mess about in the garden for a couple of hours.

Since most of the churches have cancelled tomorrow’s services (including our own), we’ll probably be right here, doing more of the same.

Recipe: Irish Potato Bread

Irish Potato Bread

One of the best things you can do with left over potatoes is make Irish potato bread. The great thing is, it’s real easy too.

  • Add some salt and butter. Quantity will depend on how much potatoes you have, and your personal taste. I added a little salt and around 1/4 cup of salted butter.
  • Mash up really good and smooth.
  • Get some plain general purpose flour and add a little. Mix with in with your hands. Keep adding flour and kneading until you have a good dough. Don’t add too much flour or you’ll dry out the dough.
  • Cut the dough into sections and roll out each part, one at a time. You should sprinkle some flour on the work surface before flattening them out. I didn’t use a rolling pin, but just used my hands.
  • Heat up a skillet. No oil should be needed. Place in a few sections at a time and brown each side.

Serve hot with a little butter.  It also goes great served with egg and bacon…!

Remember Back When: I Like The Pit-Pit-Patter…

I like the pit-pit-patter of the rain drops
I like the buzz-buzz-buzzing of the bees
But the thing I like the best
The very very best
Is to know that God loves me

Did you sing this one?  This is all I can remember of it.  Are there more verses?

The Diversity Card

We got this email the other day from our kid’s classroom assistant.  Names have been changed to protect identities.


Hi Parents of Mrs. Smith’s class,

Due to the diversity in our class I am not doing a class Christmas gift for Mrs. Smith.  So many people celebrate differently.  You are more than welcome to have your child send in something special for Mrs. Smith for whatever holiday your family celebrates.  We will be doing a gift for Mrs. Smith with the whole class in March for Teacher Appreciation and the end of the school year.  Have a wonderful holiday and enjoy the time with your kids.

Sandy Stingey-Bottom

Room Parent for Mrs. Smith


This annoyed me somewhat.  Why bring diversity into this?  Is it against anyone’s religion to give or accept a gift?  Isn’t diversity about all of us having the freedom to celebrate our beliefs rather than feeling we need to suppress those beliefs for fear of insulting a particular ethnic/religious group?

What A Week! There's A First Time For Everything!

Hatteras Lighthouse

Hatteras Lighthouse

Last week we headed to the Outer Banks for the first time.

We rented the movie Nights In Rodanthe a couple of nights before as it was based on Hatteras Island where we would be staying.  Even though it has squinty-eyed Richard Gere in the film, it was actually not too bad.

The actual drive to the outer banks was not disappointing either.  I loved going over the long bridges between the islands.  The kids loved crossing Alligator river swearing every ripple was a large Alligator.

Burning stuff is fun.

Burning stuff is fun.

We had a camp fire on the beach for the first time.

On Hatteras Island you do not need a permit to light a small camp fire below the high tide line.  We waited until the sun started to go down and dug a little fire pit.  We soon had a fire going strong.  We melted marshmallows and made s’mores.

Katie flying a kite.

Katie flying a kite.

My kids flew kites on the beach for the first time.

We intended to take the ferry to Oracoke Island on the Tuesday, but when we got down there the wait was too long.  So instead of wasting our day waiting we went into Kitty Hawk Kites and purchased a couple of kites.  We then headed off to the beach and flew them for a while.  After that we went for a long walk and collected seashells.

Enjoying the warm waters of the Sound.

Enjoying the warm waters of the Sound.

I snorkelled with my kids for the first time.

Before we left we bought some snorkels and diving masks.  The beauty of the Outer Banks is that you have the Sea on one side and the Sounds on the other side.  We spent the whole afternoon snorkelling in Pamlico Sound, watching the little fish swim underneath us.

Cool reptile show.

Cool reptile show.

We touched a reticulated python for the first time.

On the way home we went to visit the Aquarium on Roanoke Island.  We were just in time for a fantastic reptile show where we seen turtles, alligator snapping turtles, crocodiles, anacondas and finally the giant reticulated python.

Relish the first time.

Because those are the times you remember.

Environment Preparation

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I learnt a valuable lesson this week.

I took the kids last weekend to buy some pet fish.  We were starting from scratch, so we bought a small 1.5 gallon aquarium + filter, some plastic plants, gravel, water purifier, a net, food and finally three little fish in a bag.  I had all the required ingredients that I needed to set up a new home for Jake, Fraidy and Gulp as the kids affectionately named them.

We got home and began assembling everything, washing out the aquarium, washing the plants, rinsing out the gravel, etc.  We knew where everything had to go.  We needed to get those poor fish out of the bag soon.  I filled the tank and added a drop of purifying liquid to make it safe.  We then let the bag sit in the water for 20 minutes until the fish became accustomed to the temperature of the aquarium.

It was time to let the fish free.  I netted the fish out of the bag and into the tank.  It’s important not to pour the bag water into the aquarium.  That’s what it says in the instructions.

However, there was one instruction I had chose to ignore.  Yes, I read it and understood it, but I was just hoping it would work out anyway.

The aquarium must be running at least 24 hours before adding fish.

I couldn’t do that.  The fish were in the bag and they couldn’t stay there for 24 hours.  Is it really that important?  I have everything I need to get going here right now!

Fraidy died 2 days ago.  Jake died today.  There is a good chance Gulp will not make it either.

I first knew something was wrong a few days in, when Gulp started to swim funny.  I started to do partial water changes and experimenting with feeding patterns but it was too late.  There was too much ammonia in the water.  The fish were dying.  The tank was not running long enough (prior to adding fish) and did not have a chance to grow the natural bacterias that help to keep the fish healthy.

Where did I go wrong?

It was all in the preparation.  I might have had everything I needed for the perfect environment, but I hadn’t given enough thought to how we put it together.  I had not researched enough and sought advice from people who know more than me.  Rather than disappoint my kids and take the fish back, I plodded on and now I’m dealing with the consequences.

There is one positive side to this story.  Next time I’ll not make this mistake.


On a side note – three fish is too many for 1.5 gallon tank.  I didn’t know this either.  I did tell the young boy in the store though.  After talking with the store again about this, it seems he is probably lacking some preparation also.

When We Think We Have It All Worked Out

13Now listen, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.” 14Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. 15Instead, you ought to say, “If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.” 16As it is, you boast and brag. All such boasting is evil. 17Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn’t do it, sins.

(James 4:13-17)

These verses struck me recently.  Our future is not ours to determine.  We might just be wasting our time sketching out our 5 year plans and objectives.  Yes, we can have dreams and aspirations, but we have to believe they will only become a reality “if it is the Lord’s will…”.

A couple of weeks back I grew a little concerned about our future.  I realized how much control is actually not in my hands.  However, I was also suddenly aware that I was reacting more on the actions of men than of God.  The following verse reaffirmed for me who is actually in control – God is!

22 Stop trusting in man,
who has but a breath in his nostrils.
Of what account is he?

(Isaiah 2:22)

It is uncovering God’s will that should be our priority.  Only then will our life’s real purpose become apparent.  I’m still learning this and  I’m still seeking what God’s will is for me.  I know He has a purpose for me and I feel something big is just on the horizon.  I’m excited what God has in store for me and my family.

Remember, no-one can thwart God’s purpose for your life.  No-one.

11 in God I trust; I will not be afraid.
What can man do to me?

(Psalm 56:11)

12 Years

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June 10, 1997

12 years have past since this photo was taken
12 wonderful, wonderful years
12 years ago I loved her with all that I had, yet today I love her more.

12 years have given us a beautiful family
3 kids (not 12!) to call our own
I’m looking forward to the years ahead of us
To the next adventure that unfolds

12 years ago I loved her with all that I had, yet today I love her more.

Story Church Cookout!

We had our Story Church cookout on Saturday at Brier Creek Community Center.  It was our first public event as a church so it was exciting.  There was free food (burgers and hot dogs), a bounce house, face painting and games for the kids.  Jeremy took the opportunity to share the vision of Story Church with everyone that was hanging out with us.

Overall it was great day.  The weather was fantastic, the food was lovely and we met some great people.  We also learnt some lessons that we can apply to our next public venture!

I’m looking forward now to this weekend and the possibility of some new faces joining the group!

Disney World Review

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Not your usual Live To Worship post, I know.  Nathan (8) and Noah (7) have kindly taken the time to provide you with a list of rides we did at Disney World and what they thought of them.  Five Stars (*****) is superb and you must do it, while one star (*) is very poor and should be avoided.  I’ve added some comments myself where I think the boys’ rating is way off mark.

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